If the people around you have a problem with the
gambling game then you will be having many conflicts in your house and almost
daily. Due to these fights and conflicts, there are many ups and downs in the
emotions. Sometimes people hide the habit of gambling so that their loved ones
have no problem. You not only involve yourself in the wrongdoings to pay back
the amount but also the other members of the family. Sometimes, they have to
sell their possessions to pay the amount.
The people that are addicted to gambling and
those who play gambling for their requirements, require someone to help them to
get out of the gambling. The decision for quitting gambling is very difficult
for them as it an addiction for them. The force and the conflicts cannot make
gamblers get out of gambling because they feel relaxed when they play such
games. To avoid all these things, you should avoid having fights and conflicts,
help them emotionally, and also by supporting them in their efforts. The
adverse conditions can lead to actions like suicide, so their families should
take care of the person.
The tips for the
Help yourself: The family members should control their emotions and should not blame
for the things done by the other person. They should protect themselves in both
manners, in terms of financial ways and also in terms of emotions. The family
members should not allow the person who plays gambling to control their lives
in terms of money. The family members should not avoid their needs to fulfill
the requirements of the gambler.
Don’t let it go
The family members should not believe in statements like “this is the last
time”, “it won’t happen again”, “it’s getting difficult
please allow me last time” and so on. The financial status goes down and
which makes their family members ashamed in society but they should understand
they are not the only ones.
should be taken
- The partner should talk about the adverse conditions of gambling.
- Self- help groups to take gamblers out of gambling
- Tell the partner about the help you are asking to the people about the adverse effects their gambling is causing to the family
- Tell your children about the problem for some emotional support